Do you want to increase your
- Health
- Emotional well-being
- Relationships
- Work & finance
- Meaning in life
The way to heal is the way inward.
Do you want to feel your potential again?
A healing session could be something for you.
Healing Session:
During a healing session you start by formulating an intention.
For example: ''I feel vital ''. Then I will guide
you through a meditation and I tune in to the source. Sometimes
another intention surfaces that requires more attention.
During the session I'll ask a number of questions that you answer
from your body. Everything that comes up is welcome. I am going
to help you to continue to answer from your body. It may be
that limited beliefs arise that you were not yet aware of. The
method helps you to let go of these limited beliefs and gives
you new insights. Dare to allow any emotions. This is energy
in motion. This often results in beautiful insights. This works
best from relaxation. Many people experience great inner peace
during the session. This is where the healing energy lies. The
insights you gain can give you a shift to a higher frequency.
A session lasts about an hour. You will notice that you feel
freer, fitter and more vital.
A session lasts about an hour and can take place at my place or online/by telephone.
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1 op 1: € 75,- 1 op 2: € 75,- 1 op 1: 60,- (For kids and adults.) |
Reviews:
I had a magical session with Roben-Jan. He guided me very professionally and subtly in a healing journey through an obstructive belief. To the point that the limiting belief no longer bothered me and I felt very free and light. I felt safe and comfortable with Roben-Jan. He feels things very sensitively. Thank you Roben-Jan. -Sara
Steps:
The following steps are important for healing:
* I accept the disease.
* I am at peace even if I am not healed from...
* I can heal from...
* I am healing from...
About 95% of our limiting beliefs are unconscious. You want
to become aware of them up first. This does not happen through
the mind or willpower. Healing usually occurs when you let go
of one or more unconscious beliefs that keep you sick. Through
one or more sessions I can help you clarify them, let them go
and heal yourself.
Personal:
The desease is the message
Healing comes from gratitude and surrender. Surrendering to
the healing force that you are. Disease is just a message. "Don't
shoot the messenger. Healing is also acceptance of all parts
of yourself.
What wants to be felt and is just as important: What do you
need to let go. Often by allowing it first.
Do you suffer from a chronic illness? I myself suffered from
a very aggressive form
of Crohn's disease for 21 years. I was also on heavy medication
for 21 years. Now, 3 intestinal operations later, I am free
of Inflamations disease and free of medication. How? I can write
a book about it but I will take you through a brief overview
of my process.
Side effects
I've tried everything. Different types of therapies, homeopathy, all possible diets that only had a temporary positive effect each time. I took all the regular medications that were available for Crohn's. With all the side effects that came with it. Such as skin cancer that was diagnosed in 2010. Several tumors had to be removed and I had radiation treatment once because the squamous carcinoma that had been excised on my chest was already branching out. Medicines will certainly do something to reduce Crohn's attacks. They just won't heal you, and they often work temporarily. My body kept finding a way to give me "the message".
You're not your disease
After a while the disease became more aggressive again despite
the switch to new medication. After my first major intestinal
surgery in 2013, I still had hope that it would stay away. Unfortunately,
it came back mercilessly. In 2016 I really had to work less.
This was a good decision, but the inflammation in my intestines
became more active again. In 2018, a 20-hour work week was also
too hard for me. The very latest medicine that I used at the
same time as a high dose of prednisone soon turned out to have
no effect anymore. The doctors were at a loss and said that
I had a very aggressive form of this disease.
I thought: "What am I still fighting for"? I became
depressed and thought: "I better step out". I had
thought this before but never took it seriously because I wanted
to remain combative. At that moment I chose to surrender to
life and accepted my thoughts. I felt the emotion that what
wanted to be felt and instantly some life energy started to
flow through me. I picked up my phone and literally asked ''give
me some perspective''! I saw a video of Arjen Slijp in which
he said: ''You are not your thoughts; you are not your emotions.''
I immediately had the insight: "And you are not your illness."
My stomach is my guide
I immediately signed myself up for "De Ontdekking" (The Discovery). That is the basic course of "De Innerlijke Bevrijding" (The Inner Liberation). Everything was stirred up in me, but of course I was not cured yet. I then did "De Verdieping" (The Deepening) for one whole year and subsequently "De Masterclass Opleiding" (The Masterclass Training) for almost 2 years. This method allowed me to get in touch with my subconscious/the source. This allowed me to let go of obstructive beliefs and allow insights. One of my first subconscious beliefs that emerged was that I believed that I deserved to carry this disease. When I let go of this, I felt the pain in my gut shift upwards and my heart opened. I gained the insight that everything is energy and that nothing is fixed. Later During the process, a conviction emerged in which I had a judgment about setting boundaries. This was a weakness. I have to be able to handle it, right? I had ignored my own set of boundaries for so long that it took some time to feel them, acknowledge them and to stand by them. I noticed that when I set boundaries, I experienced safety from within. This gave me more strength. It was the beginning of my healing journey. Now I use my stomach as my guideline. It's that part of my body that communicates the best with me.
Wayne Dyer:
I will attract into my life what I am. Not what I want. And
I am capable to attract whatever the source is capable of attracting.
That's the difference. You get what you are instead of what
you want. I am whole, I am well, I am happy. I am content, I
am fulfilled. Even if your senses tell you that you are depressed.
You don't say I'm depressed because when you say that you connect
with depression and the universal source or God will align with
that in such a way that it gives you more depression. So connect
with your natural state of being and tune into what you are.
Here you will find more information about Inner Freedom.
www.deinnerlijkebevrijding.nl
https://deinnerlijkebevrijding.nl/gecertificeerde-begeleiders/
Systemic Approach Training
In January 2024, I started this training.
This training is based on family constellations. What an instructive period that was. I was able to look at and heal some truly beautiful pieces. Especially many inner child issues, but also the mother and father lines were included.
This program is designed to help you approach things systematically with one-on-one coaching. Then you become both a facilitator and a representative. This does take some practice, of course. After obtaining my certificate, we also have further training. Every
two months, we meet with guidance to set up a constellation. You facilitate a constellation and receive one. This way, I can gain more and more experience in this as well. Here too, the field is leading, not the mind.
Lyme disease (Borrelia bacteria)
Summer 2024,
I met someone who had suffered severely from Lyme disease. And had completely recovered from it through frequencies. He was in the process of turning his life around and helping others heal from symptoms caused by the bacteria that causes Lyme. In a nutshell:
First detox with special natural products that tackle 60/70% of the bacteria, and then use frequencies to kill the remaining bacteria that make you sick. He shared his laundry list of symptoms and his years-long search for a cure. Not only was the long search
familiar, but some of the symptoms he had were similar to mine. He explained that Borrelia bacteria leave feces in your body, and that these are toxins in your blood. With all the inner work I had done and the use of curcumin, I was able to maintain some balance,
but this is not something you can detox against. The bacteria reproduce in your bone marrow and are then difficult or impossible for your immune system to eliminate completely.
He started his practice in October 2024 and called me because I wanted to start as soon as possible. He started with a live blood analysis to map everything. It was immediately clear that I was covered in Borrelia. He was able to point out large, lyme spirochetes
on the computer screen and said that I had apparently had this bacterium in my system since childhood. My blood looked awful. It was working hard to clean everything out, but the toxins were simply being replenished. My immune system was working at full capacity.
In December, I was still in the middle of my detoxification process and had my regular check-up at the hospital. This involved providing a stool sample to check my inflammatory protein (calprotectin) level. It turned out to be very high: 650, and from 250,
this already indicates high inflammation and infection.
The doctor wanted to recommend maintenance treatment, but I no longer wanted that. Moreover, I was in the middle of a detoxification process in preparation for the frequency treatment. That was what I wanted to focus on. After that, I'll be done with this disease
and can write a book about how to overcome it with therapies, diets, inner liberation, family constellations, hundreds of courses on inner work, etc., etc. And of course, the main culprit I finally had in my sights: the Borrelia bacteria. Those were my beliefs.
At the end of January 2025, I had to go behind a frequency device four times to kill all the bacteria that didn't belong in my blood. These were a lot of different bacteria. After that, I went again to get rid of the candida, and when that was removed too,
I thought: Now I'm done with it. I didn't realize that my body was still working hard to clear out the remaining debris. I thought this might take a few weeks, but that turned out not to be the case. In addition, I was working through family constellations
to break through some patterns and release some traumas I carried with me. I did a "family" constellation every two weeks, sometimes combined with connected breathing. I also did some online healing work, etc., etc. My stomach kept hurting.
I chose to trust that it would go away quickly. When I went back to a session with someone else who was facilitating it, with a stomachache, I noticed it was getting quite intense. During the break, she said she could let the energy drain away a bit. My body
started to shake. I had to sit down and practically bounced off my chair. "You're storing so much energy from other people," she said.
I know from my human design body graph that I have an open emotional center. So, I feel other people's emotions as my own. Is that the reason why?
I decided to go home because I felt too bad to continue. This was April 2025.
I was sick for at least two weeks at home with stomach pain and heavy bleeding. After that, I thought I would be okay and went back to work after the holidays in May, but I still had a lot of stomach pain and was very tired.
It was time for another checkup at the hospital. Calprotectin 950, and what else? Anemia.
I decided to take a light, temporary course of prednisone and scheduled an iron infusion, but I didn't want maintenance medication.
The most important insight after all this: How can I recover when I'm working so hard and doing my best? I realized When you work hard, you're in the sympathetic part of your nervous system. Healing comes from the parasympathetic part. So simple, and yet I
apparently still
believed I had to do my best to heal. Healing is a natural process that arises from relaxation. Then the body can heal naturally by itself.
Single-Borne Twins
Summer 2025,
Six weeks after the day I got so sick I had another constellation with my trusted counselor. I mentioned that I'd like to have a constellation of my belly.
I chose my counselor as my representative. It turned into a one-hour constellation, and I immediately felt relief. It turned out that I was a single-born twin. How is that possible? I'd seen this before at the beginning of the training, following a table constellation
on the first day. I talked about it with my mother at the time, but she couldn't remember it.
Now it came up for the second time, and I actually found it hard to believe. Strangely enough, my belly calmed down when I acknowledged the possibility.
So I talked about it with my mother again, and she said she had indeed experienced some bleeding at the beginning of her pregnancy. Apparently, it had been deeply buried. She also told me that before she got pregnant with me, she had dreams that she was pregnant
with twins.
At the beginning of the summer. I had a Zoom meeting with the counselor from my last family constellation. I told her about the bleeding my mother had when she was pregnant with me and she asked: "Would you like an NEI session?" I said, "Yes, of course!" I'm
familiar with this method developed by Roy Martina where your body answers questions, and I was curious to see what would come of it.
During this session it became clear that my mother had a hemorrhage (bleeding) after 6 weeks when she was pregnant with me and that I became merged with the soul of my unborn brother. From that moment on, I carried a double destiny in life. I realized that
a lot of things were falling into place. I really had to process this. I was born with a great loss. I cried for three days, which is very unusual for me. It set a lot of things in motion. I immediately chose the single-birth twin program, which includes six
NEI sessions. What a remarkable program this was!
I was able to glimpse into past lives where trauma had arisen. This had become lodged in my body. A lot of things were released from various organs where something had become lodged, especially my stomach. Where I couldn't digest something due to intense events
from past lives, when this was brought back into balance, it brought relief to my gut.
If I hadn't had this flare-up, I wouldn't have become aware of this, and my body would have continued to send signals of tension and pain.
Perhaps that's the purpose of illness: to become aware of what still lies in the subconscious. And if I need a flare-up to see this, I'm willing to feel the pain. My body talks to me and is incredibly wise. My mind doesn't need to understand this. As long
as I listen to what my body is telling me. For me, that's healing. And I don't want to be cured of my illness. Apparently, "the illness" is still needed occasionally to give me important insights into who or what I am. I'm not going to suppress that with medication.
Shakti energy
Awareness is an ongoing process. Fortunately, because it allows more and more light to shine on all parts of yourself.
I'm currently working with life energy, or Shakti energy. The trick is to direct this energy to areas in your body that need healing. If I can't let the life energy flow, I also get stomach pain. My stomach makes me aware of this. I gained this insight when
I attended an introductory week at the Tantra Center in August 2025.
I keep realizing that we're simply on a journey. And that I shouldn't fixate on a final destination.
It's so easy to lose sight of the steps we've taken. Healing happens in small steps, and every now and then my body gives me a warning. Then I gain new insights that I can be grateful for, and that I could never have imagined it was always there. waiting beneath
the surface, to shine my light on.
